On the other hand, a little civilized recognition that not everyone sees things the same way is both objectively true and avoids pointless quarrels.
I don't see any way to do justice to the way things feel and the way things are at the same time.
Addendum: I see that I didn't quite say what I meant. What I had in mind is that I might have the strong "That's crap!" reaction first, and then I tone it down to the civilized but emotionally inaccurate "I really hate that!".