So, what sort of influence are you uncomfortable exerting? What sort of influence do you dislike having used on you? Do the goals matter? Are there types of influence that you like being on the receiving end of?
I probably don't have enough of a handle on the range of the subject to even ask all the questions that would elicit worthwhile stuff, so feel free to free associate.
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