Friday by Robert Heinlein. Arguably, the whole book is about Friday looking for a home and having one after another getting pulled out from under her until she finally finds a home off earth.
The Rainbow Cadenza by J. Neil Schulman. The main character comes back to earth for plot reasons, but she has good reasons for never wanting to live there.
"The Persistence of Vision" by John Varley
The Women Men Don't See This is obviously mostly feminism, but there's something in there about a more general sort of alienation that I'm having trouble putting a finger on.
Any other stories?
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